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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Couples: Reading List
Jan 18, 2019 5:04 pm
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Note: For book reviews, please see individual posts. This is a list of excellent books for couples. A few of them are grief-related, and the rest are for all couples.... More
Jan 18, 2019 5:04 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 4,773
Note: For book reviews, please see individual posts. This is a list of excellent books for couples. A few of them are grief-related, and the rest are for all couples.... More
Couples: "When Good People Have Affairs" by Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 11, 2019 3:17 pm
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Affairs are so painful for couples (I know that's a huge understatement). The desire to understand and the internal pressure of deciding what to do in the wake... More
Jan 11, 2019 3:17 pm
Comments: 3 | Views: 6,681
Affairs are so painful for couples (I know that's a huge understatement). The desire to understand and the internal pressure of deciding what to do in the wake... More
Couples: Life Can Change on a Dime
Jan 4, 2019 9:36 am
Comments: 7 | Views: 5,620
Readers, let me begin by saying that I'm fine. Yesterday instead of seeing my wonderful clients, I spent the morning and early afternoon in the ER. I was newly diagnosed... More
Jan 4, 2019 9:36 am
Comments: 7 | Views: 5,620
Readers, let me begin by saying that I'm fine. Yesterday instead of seeing my wonderful clients, I spent the morning and early afternoon in the ER. I was newly diagnosed... More
Couples: "The Goal of Marriage is Not to Think Alike, but to Think Together"
Dec 27, 2018 4:26 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 5,221
I recently came across this quote comes from Robert Dodd, and it resonates in my work with couples.
We often select a partner that is different from us, yet complements... More
Dec 27, 2018 4:26 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 5,221
I recently came across this quote comes from Robert Dodd, and it resonates in my work with couples.
We often select a partner that is different from us, yet complements... More
Couples: All People Are Difficult, But You Shouldn’t Be Too Difficult
Dec 21, 2018 3:09 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 5,350
The following article is written by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT. He is the founder of PACT, Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy. Most of our Connect2 therapists... More
Dec 21, 2018 3:09 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 5,350
The following article is written by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT. He is the founder of PACT, Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy. Most of our Connect2 therapists... More
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