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Stay and Play – and Work – in Carmel-by-the-Sea

Uploaded: May 14, 2021
My husband and I, with our adored Papillon, Bixby (yes, named after Bixby Bridge), were hosted by Hofsas House in Carmel. We had an amazing getaway, especially after staying home for 14 months.

Right in the heart of Carmel, we walked to the beach for sunset. Blooming agapanthus were everywhere, riots of flowers’ scent reached us amidst the fresh ocean air. Sitting in the sand, I felt tension drain away. I had everything I wanted and needed with my beloved and pup by my side.

It would be so easy to stay in Carmel for a while. The internet connection is work-worthy. Our two rooms were about 1000 square feet (I thought a pool table would easily work in one bedroom!), with two baths, three beds, and a kitchenette. The pastries from a local bakery made the continental breakfast noteworthy. Since so many of us are working from home, why not work in Carmel? There’s plenty of space for you and your beloved, or your family and dog.

Carrie, the owner of Hofsas House is the granddaughter of Donna Hofsas who started the hotel in the 1940s. The Bavarian murals were painted by Maxine Albro, who painted alongside Diego Rivera in San Francisco.

Carrie was a huge help; she pointed us to restaurants and guided us to Garland Ranch Regional Park, where we could bring Bixby. About eight miles inland on Carmel Valley Road, Garland was full of wildflowers (and a 4’ gopher snake) and views of the valley.

Sitting outside, we had tasty crab tacos and cioppino at Flaherty's. Chatting with others and admiring their dogs was refreshing—a pre-Covid experience we relished.

Wandering around Carmel, looking in art galleries, is a favorite pastime. I have an avid interest in impressionism, and seen paintings of Big Sur at the Carmel Art Association.

Alas, we had to come home (my husband doesn’t work online). Refreshed, relaxed, and filled with joy, we made our way home to Silicon Valley.
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Posted by ptownfreckle, a resident of Valley Trails,
on May 17, 2021 at 9:49 am

ptownfreckle is a registered user.

My husband and I stayed at the Hoffa House 51 years ago for our honeymoon. We had a great time back in the day.

Posted by Chandrama Anderson, a blogger,
on May 17, 2021 at 9:01 pm

Chandrama Anderson is a registered user.

ptownfreckle, thank you for sharing that. Congratulations! What are your top three tips for having a happy marriage over 51 years?


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